October 25, 2025

Why Most eCommerce Stores Fail at Customer Retention (And How to Fix It)

By Veronica Jeans, Bestselling Author

Why Most eCommerce Stores Fail at Customer Retention

(And the simple 3-step fix that 10x's your profits)

I just got off a call with a client making $30K/month who's completely burned out.

She's working 70-hour weeks. Running ads. Chasing new customers. Bleeding money on platform fees.

I asked her one question: "How many of your customers buy from you more than once?"

*Silence.*

"Maybe... 15%?"

And there it was. The blind spot costing her 6 figures.

The Truth Nobody Talks About

You don't have a traffic problem. You have a retention problem.

Most eCommerce store owners are so obsessed with getting NEW customers that they completely ignore the goldmine sitting in their existing customer list.

But here's the reality that'll change how you think about your business forever:

The Numbers Don't Lie

5-25x More expensive to acquire new customers than keep existing ones
67% More spending from repeat customers vs. new customers
25-95% Profit increase from just 5% better retention

The LOL Strategy: Your 7-Figure Blueprint

After building my own 7-figure business and coaching dozens of entrepreneurs from overwhelmed to automated, I created a framework that changes everything:

The LOL Strategy

L LISTEN

See what your customers actually need—not what you think they need. Stop guessing, start listening to the data, feedback, and real conversations.

O OFFER

Give them more than expected. Surprise and delight at every touchpoint. Overdeliver on the obvious stuff and add unexpected value everywhere.

L LOOK AFTER

Make them feel special so they stay, buy again, and bring their friends. Your most profitable marketing channel is the customers you already have.

Simple? Yes. Easy? Also yes. Common? Hell no.

The Difference Between Struggling and Scaling

❌ Without LOL Strategy

  • Spend $50 to acquire customer
  • They buy once for $75
  • Never hear from them again
  • You barely broke even
  • Rinse and repeat forever
Result: $75 revenue, exhausted

✅ With LOL Strategy

  • Spend $50 to acquire customer
  • They buy once for $75
  • You wow them with experience
  • They buy 4 more times ($375 total)
  • They refer 2 friends
Result: $1,000+ revenue, scalable

That's how you go from $50K/month to $250K/month with the SAME traffic.

"Your customers aren't transactions. They're relationships. Treat them like ATM machines, and they'll treat you like a commodity. Treat them like valued partners, and they'll build your business FOR you."

Where You're Leaving Money on the Table Right Now

Most store owners are bleeding revenue because they're not doing these basics:

  • Not asking customers what they want (you're guessing instead of listening)
  • Treating all customers the same (first-timers get the same experience as your VIPs)
  • Email list only gets promotional blasts (instead of value-packed content)
  • No loyalty program (or a terrible one nobody uses)
  • Boring packaging (missed opportunity to wow them)
  • No follow-up after the sale (relationship ends at checkout)

Every single one of these is fixable. And most can be automated to run while you sleep.

🚀 What You Do Monday Morning

  1. Set up a post-purchase survey — Ask: What almost stopped you from buying? What should we create next? (Use Typeform or your email platform)
  2. Create a VIP segment — Your top 20 customers need different treatment. Give them early access, special perks, make them feel like insiders.
  3. Add ONE surprise element — Handwritten note, bonus sample, or exclusive discount code in your packaging
  4. Build an abandoned cart sequence — If you don't have one, you're leaving 30% of revenue on the table
  5. Start a weekly value email — 80% tips/stories/inspiration, 20% selling. Make them glad they're on your list.

These 5 things will change your business. I'm not exaggerating.

The Bottom Line

The LOL Strategy isn't just "nice to do." It's the difference between working 70 hours a week for $30K/month and working 30 hours a week for $150K/month.

I've seen it dozens of times with my clients. The businesses that win? They don't just make sales—they make relationships.

Your business isn't an ATM machine. It's a community.

Build it like one, and your customers will do the marketing for you.

Ready to Build Your Customer-Obsessed Business?

Get the complete LOL Strategy implementation plan—the exact systems I use with my clients to 2-3x their customer lifetime value in 90 days.

Veronica Jeans

eCommerce Consultant | Shopify Expert

Speaking from my yacht in Houston, because your business should fund your life—not consume it

Veronica Jeans

Veronica Jeans

eCommerce Strategist | Shopify Expert | 7-Figure Business Coach

I have integrated my extensive knowledge in the field of eCommerce and Shopify, along with my international financial expertise, to offer up a playbook for generating income online.